FAQ

Find is the only social-first dating network that helps you connect through shared passions—not superficial swipes. Think of Find like Instagram meets Pinterest but for dating. Events, posts, and profiles all centered around what you love. It’s built more like a social experience, so it feels way more natural and fun. Less “hot or not,” and more "oh, you like that too?!"

- Find is perfect if you’re tired of the swipe/match culture.
- It's for people who know that great relationships start with shared interests.
- If you're tired of chats starting with “wyd” or "hey" and ending with ghosting.
- It's for people who still believe in real connections. You’re not asking for a lot. You just want something meaningful with someone who gets YOU. Same. That’s why we built Find.

We don't really do "matches." But, you'll see a 1-to-5 heart rating based on how many of your Essentials, Attributes, and Passions align with someone else’s. The more you share in common, the more hearts. To see why its 1-5 hearts, go to someone's profile, then tap "View your connection points." Like a Spotify Wrapped for you + them. Shows what you share, convo sparks, and a cute “What if?” future. Real reasons. No guessing.

This is how Find works. Passions are active mini-communities. Every post, match, and DM comes from the Passions you add to your profile. From unique hobbies and super specific interests like 90's grunge or artisanal sourdough, to local happenings or big events like Coachella, you choose who you meet.

- Photos, videos, or text. Post daily life, memes, playlists, hot takes or quick thoughts, anything that shows what you're passionate about.
- Edit and create content like on Instagram, but for dating.

- Yes! Find is free to download and use. We’ll also offer some premium features later, but the core experience is completely free. Way more fun and usable than the apps you've tried.
- No blurry profiles, secret algorithms, or gatekeeping here.